Is Joy Even Possible?
No one can be happy all the time. It requires external stimuli to generate feelings of pleasure, delight, and satisfaction. And when that stimulus declines or disappears, we see people become disillusioned, angry, and bitter because the euphoria doesn’t last. They’re ever chasing happiness, but it is fleeting. Happiness is circumstantial and unsustainable.
But joy. Oh, joy!! Joy is something God gives us when we’re fully surrendered to and in relationship with Him. Joy comes from the Source of joy, the presence of God’s peace, and the contentment of belonging, knowing your value, and having purpose, not in performance, but because you belong to Christ. Our circumstances may change, situations may turn sour, relationships become hard, and life hurts. But joy can remain because it’s not dependent on what surrounds us but on Who is within us! Joy is anchored in the eternal, not temporal circumstances or situations.
How many of us know people who, or have ourselves, viewed life in terms of ‘things will be better when…’ or ‘I’d be happy only if…’? We too often fall victim to thinking a change of job or house, a new relationship or pursuit will bring joy. But those are situational and circumstantial. The only change that truly brings joy is changing from a life lived for self to a life lived for God. A surrender of all of our desires, goals, pursuits, and passions to Jesus, making Him Lord of our life, brings true joy. He replaces longing with contentment. He supersedes happiness with real joy. He fixes our eyes not on the temporary, but the eternal.
And when He gives us joy, it is so far beyond what we have words to describe that 1 Peter calls it ‘joy unspeakable’, that’s joy “to which words are inadequate.” (1) Isn’t that the kind of joy we long to know and experience and to see our children know?
““Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible (unspeakable) and filled with glory, for you are receiving the end result of your faith, the salvation of your souls.” 1 Peter 1:8-9
What if our sons and daughters found their true, boundless joy in Christ? All of the things of this world would become tarnished and we would recognize they lack the luster they once promised. Our children would know true, deep, satisfying joy that comes from the Source of Life, Himself.
So, how can we know this kind of joy? And how can we pray our sons and daughters pursue true joy, not the endless, defeating treadmill of the pursuit of happiness?
1. Full surrender to Christ as Lord and Savior.
This is where it begins, for all of us. Romans 2:23 tells us, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”
There is no way we can, on our own, be without sin and find real, lasting joy. If we fall short of God’s glory, we also fall short of true joy. Full surrender to Christ as Lord unlocks a new dimension of freedom, trust, joy, and peace that otherwise we cannot know.
2. Abide in Christ.
Make the choice to serve Him daily, spend time with Him, worship Him with all that you are and have. What does it mean to abide? It’s where you live. It’s the place you return to daily. It is where you find rest and belonging. It is home. If we abide in Christ, His joy abides in us.
John 15:10-11, “If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full.”
3. Pray, in Jesus’ name.
Prayer is a conversation with God and involves both speaking and listening. But our prayers are not answered because of the strength, justice, or validity of our appeal. Prayer is answered solely based on God’s character, nature, and attributes. His response aligns with His will, not our desperation. We need to be surrendered, listening, and willing to accept whatever He chooses to do because His responses are in line with His will and His eternal nature, rather than our limited and finite understanding and experience. Trusting in Who He is brings a peace and joy that no earthly guarantee can assure. Pray in His name and wait expectantly. He can do more than we could ask or imagine.
“Truly, truly, I say to you, whatever you ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full.” John 16:23b-24
Asking in Jesus’ name brings joy because we know and trust the One who answers us.
4. Enjoy fellowship with other believers
“I have much to write to you, but I do not want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to visit you and talk with you face to face, so that our joy may be complete.” 2 John 1:12
The Apostle John understood the importance and value of face to face fellowship. It’s something that cannot be gained via screens or online presence. While I’m grateful you take time to read these posts, I pray you are fellowshipping with other believers who can look in your eyes, encourage you with prayer, a hug, truth from the Word, and accountability. We are the body of Christ and the body is many parts, joined together. The body doesn’t log on to see how each part is doing, they are conjoined, sensing the needs, joys, and sorrows of each one. The body does life with all the parts in real time. Our sons and daughters desperately need fellowship, as do we. Pray they would pursue it as a priority, not a nicety.
5. Re-center your focus and anticipation on what is to come, daily.
Again, looking at 1 Peter 1:8-9, we’re reminded that joy is the product of knowing our eternity is secure in Christ.
“Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, for you are receiving the end result of your faith, the salvation of your souls.” 1 Peter 1:8-9
Our faith will one day become sight and we will SEE Jesus, our Savior, face to face! We need to pray that our sons and daughters are not caught up in the pursuit of success, money, things and relationships, distracted by the temporal things here. We need to cover them with prayer so they embrace the status of life as a believer in Christ, not the status of life as defined by this world. Pray they live, undistracted, realizing every day that eternity is a breath away and Who they pursue and what they worship makes a difference.
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” Galatians 5:22-23
Joy is attainable! True, inexpressible, overflowing joy can be ours as believers in Christ! There is no law against it. No one can take it from us! It is a fruit of the Spirit, a product of Christ’s indwelling our hearts and minds! Let’s pray our sons and daughters embrace love and experience true, inexpressible joy in Jesus!
Check back soon, next up we’ll talk about peace!
Pray without ceasing!
G412 - aneklalētos - Strong's Greek Lexicon (KJV). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g412/kjv/tr/0-1/